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Start here: what this circle is for
Tomás · Pinned by a moderator · 0 replies
Post the question you are stuck phrasing, not the situation in full. Replies should be questions or observations about the wording. If you find yourself typing 'you should', delete it and ask something instead.
- Framing the question
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A four-criterion scaffold for a job change
Tomás · 2 weeks ago · 1 reply
Money, daily shape, people, and what it makes possible in three years. I share the shape and nothing else — no notes, no names. People fill it with their own content or throw it away.
- Criteria and weighting
- Facilitating others
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I think I have two questions pretending to be one
Mira K. · 3 days ago · 3 replies
Every time I write down 'should I move', a second question turns up underneath it about the work I would leave behind. Has anyone found a clean way to split a knot like that without losing the part that actually matters?
- Framing the question
- Timing and pace
- A question about methodExample content
How do you weight something you cannot measure?
Mira K. · last week · 1 reply
Two of my criteria are numbers and one is 'how this will feel in a year'. Putting a percentage on the third felt dishonest until I stopped treating the percentages as accuracy and started treating them as a statement of attention.
- Criteria and weighting
- Decisions at work
- Something I noticedExample content
A conscious pause is not the same as avoiding it
Anke · 3 weeks ago · 0 replies
I used to call every delay procrastination. Writing down what I am waiting for, and when I will look again, turned waiting into something I chose rather than something that happened to me.
- Timing and pace
- Care and family
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