How it works
Nine small steps, one decision at a time
You see one step per screen, you can pause anywhere, and everything you write stays yours.
How it feels
Name how it feels, in your words. Nothing is interpreted back at you.
Your question
Write the question you are actually asking. A few plain rules suggest sharper wording, and you keep or ignore them.
Importance
Say how much this weighs, when it needs attention, and how much energy you have for it right now.
Possibilities
List what you could do. Staying undecided and taking a small reversible step both count.
What matters
Choose up to three things that genuinely matter to you here, and how much each one weighs.
Weighting
Choose up to three things that genuinely matter to you here, and how much each one weighs.
Evaluation
Hold your possibilities against your own criteria, side by side.
Compass
See your own reasoning gathered in one view. It reflects what you said, it does not rank it for you.
Commitment
Decide what you will actually do next, and by when. Or decide to wait, on purpose.
Reflection
Come back later and write what happened. That is where the learning lives.
The part that keeps paying off
Each finished decision settles on your map with the reasoning attached. Months later you can see how you weigh things, where you hesitate, and what you would trust yourself to do again.
Honest answers
Questions people ask first
Including the sceptical ones.