Guidelines
How we keep this room kind
Short, plain, and enforced by people rather than by an algorithm.
Ask before you advise
A good question moves someone further than a confident answer. If advice is wanted, it will be asked for.
Nobody's decision is yours to make
You can describe how you framed something. You do not get to tell someone what to choose.
Other people's details stay theirs
Write about your own situation. Don't publish identifying details about anyone who isn't here.
Report rather than argue
If something is unkind or pushy, report it. Real moderators read reports; nobody is told who sent one.
What we never do
- Rank people, posts or circles.
- Show your decision work to anyone.
- Send notifications designed to pull you back.
Honest status
The community is staged while accounts are closed. Nothing you write here is published.
Honest status
The community service is not connected yet. Posts, circles and profiles shown here are examples written by us, and anything you save, join, draft or report is kept in this browser only — nothing is sent anywhere and nobody else can see it.