Mira K. · 3 days ago · Naming the question
Every time I write down 'should I move', a second question turns up underneath it about the work I would leave behind. Has anyone found a clean way to split a knot like that without losing the part that actually matters?
Tomás · 2 days ago
When I split one, I keep both and mark which one has to be answered first. Often the second one turns out to be a criterion of the first rather than a question of its own. Does yours behave like that?
Mira K. · 2 days ago
That reframing helps — the work one really is a criterion. I'll try writing it that way and see if the first question survives.
ReportAnke · yesterday
I write both on separate lines and leave them a week. Usually one of them has quietly stopped mattering by then.
A question is usually more useful here than a verdict.
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